Mr. Papaya Dog has been full-time for 2 years, so we now split all the expenses evenly. We've talked about our financial future before, but only briefly and only when talking about how we'll never be able to retire or buy a house.
Recently, my parents told me that they wanted to give my sister and I part of our inheritance before they passed away. My Mom had breast cancer last year and while she was recovering, she decided that she wanted to see her children enjoy their lives and what they were set to inherit. My parents have a double lot in a neighborhood in Seattle that is up and coming. They want to split the lot and give each one of us one a piece.
This is a HUGE gift. I'm not sure Mr. Papaya Dog and I could afford to buy or build anything in Seattle on our incomes. This is our chance to actually own something. We were ready to undertake this huge gift and project over the summer but then before we knew it, the country was in a mortgage crisis and we decided we probably needed to wait and see how things developed.

Setting up these meeting have made Mr. Papaya Dog and I think about our bigger financial future. How do we merge our limited assets? Once we're married, what's the best way to save for retirement and those big expenses in life like a home, children, etc. In addition, Mr. Papaya Dog still has grad school loans where as I have paid all mine off. How does that work? Should I be helping him pay that off? We have so many financial questions that we think we need to talk to a professional. I always read that money and financial problems are two of the most common reasons marriages fall apart.
We're asking around for referrals and hoping to meet with a financial counselor in the next few months. Have you and your fiance discussed your financial future together? Did you see financial planner together before getting married? Was it helpful?
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